But so is 99% of dating advice from purple pill / blue pill (mainstream) sources. Some of it even reeks of recycled red pill content. Most guys that are successful at red pill game have a 3% approach-to-bang ratio. That is, red pill tactics work on average with 3% of females that you will find. That's cool and all. And I could certainly play Being a red pill women in college. I've been lurking around on this forum for about a couple months now and I have made a couple observations in college. I honestly would love to know some of you guys better just because being RP at my university leaves me in the minority. My college is plagued by feminism and women in the feminist student union Red Pill WOMEN Portal. Attention Women, TRP is a male space so the content may seem shocking. Go to /r/redpillwomen to learn Red Pill theory from the female perspective. Men: RedPillWomen is a female space where you're best off not posting. If you post and cause trouble there, it will follow you back here. IRC Channel. IRC Channel #theredpill
[Long Post] 99% of dating advice is BS. Red pill or otherwise. : exredpill
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How to talk to anyone: 92 little tricks to big success at relationships. A Teen's Guide to Success. Askwomen on being a creep. Red pill or otherwise. I love the advice on nerdy hobbies. my best friend has a star wars basement and is married with a kid to a cool attractive women I paint models and toys and I'm married another girlfriend I had brought her home, she saw my warhammer models, asked what they were, explained, then we fucked like rabbits this whole my hobbies hold me back shit Is BS.
just be well rounded. I think it also comes in from levels. If my whole personality revolves around a hobby, then its overkill. Look man I've been down this fucking road again and again back when I was in my early twenties and all I can say is that it's all bullshit. By that I mean your mindset is what's most important, everything else follows that. This is like being a chess player and focusing on moves instead of the overarching theme of an opening or specific endgame trends.
Everything sorts of falls into place once you get your mindset in order. For me it was to accept all the bullshit and crap that everyone has heard about dating. I've always gotten shit because I became brainwashed and believe that women are shallow and superficial. Funny thing was that once I accepted that no amount of fighting misogynistic thoughts is going to fix me, and that I need to focus my energy on just dating in spite of my own mind torturing me, I got better.
It's like this, convince myself women aren't an evil hivemind, see shit that makes me thinks otherwise, try to convince myself women aren't an evil hivemind again. This is a waste of headspace. You are spending a significant amount of headspace thinking about how some guys get gfs and they aren't X and how they do it, body language, following what other people say, confidence and appearance. This is all in your head and well intentioned garbage imho.
Your current mindset is: ask people how to improve, improve, ask for feedback again, improve, with dating in between improve and asking for feedback. Problem: people are pretty subjective. I had a period where I was kind of doing the same thing. I was asking my sister advice on dating and she would give me advice like you don't emote enough. You understand what I'm trying to get at? Who cares what they think. You're not trying to be their boyfriend or anything. The mindset that I had: Be the best version of me.
I don't care what people think, I lifted. Some girls like my sister told me that girls actually don't like veiny muscles. I kind of had it at that point and gained around 6 kilos of muscles?
Idr, but then I groomed, made sure I had a purpose in life mine was career in order to support a family. Doing this allowed me to have some pride in myself. I got introduced to someone and the rest is history. It wasn't feelings or emotion or confidence that "won her over", reddit red pill online dating. You don't win them over, their values align with yours and they feel we are a good match. Your demon, we all have those, is that you are relying on people to tell you what to do.
The advice here is good, but you're not them. Fuck you're not me. You need to be your own person. One dude here thinks that he's a natural because he's comfortable with himself and never had any major dry spells. Okay that's true and I totally believe that but we don't know how physically attractive he is even if he says he's ugly. We don't know shit about him yeah? Idk about you, but I'm taking it with a grain of salt. Do whatever you have to do, like lifting, to make yourself in control of your own headspace.
Then it's like you're playing a completely different world. After that talking to girls is just talking to girls. The real problem is: drop the lingo. Drop the technique, the analysis, drop the idea that this is some kind of game you can figure out. The truth is, reddit red pill online dating, some people have an easier time connecting with people around them. They can easily make conversation, and are more skilled at it. If an reddit red pill online dating doesn't feel forced but is enjoyable, everybody reddit red pill online dating out of it feeling good and wanting more.
This has only a little to do with confidence, a little too do with looks, etc. All those combine to project an image of being someone that's nice to hang out with. But the people who do this, they're not constantly trying to be calculative about it.
To try so hard will only make you fail. You talk about naturals, and by that you mean they are naturally skilled, and I would say they are just "being" natural. In the other sense of the word. In the sense of being honest and open and not overthinking everything.
Also, reddit red pill online dating, it's not a numbers game. It only needs to work once if the person is the right one. That's the kind of stuff that women detect really easily as do most people when they talk to you.
If you're only looking for a human connection and a nice time, reddit red pill online dating be successful. If you're looking to score, people can tell you're not being genuine and your conversation will fall flat, you will not pay attention to your partner, and you will turn them reddit red pill online dating. That's why people here give advice like find a hobby etc. To get people to stop focusing on their dating success so much.
That's the only thing that will make a difference. I think you're over thinking this. I guess by your definition I am a natural or was before I met my wife reddit red pill online dating I've had sex pretty consistently from age 15 through today at 35 never going more than a month or two without it.
If you're all up in your own head which by this post I'm going to guess you reddit red pill online dating, you miss the opportunity to connect with someone. I'm not the best looking guy, but I'm confident and funny and don't mind being myself which is a little weird.
I think confidence is the absolute key though. Not pretending to be confident but actually being comfortable with yourself and open to learning about someone else. People love to talk about themselves so the best thing you can do is ask questions and most important follow up questions. Example: do you have siblings she answers yestell me about your brother, what's he do, what's that relationship like, are you close.
It also never hurts to be charming. If a girl thinks you being charming is "thirsty" then she probably isnt someone I would want to spend time with. In fact any girl who uses the term thirsty probably should get a pass.
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